My 3 Favorites:"Multitasking doesn't make you efficient. It actually lowers your IQ temporarily. Your brain isn't built to juggle tasks simultaneously. Each switch drains focus, dropping your mental sharpness to the level of someone, who just pulled an allnighter."
"Compliments release more dopamine than, money for many people. Validation lights up reward-circuits faster than cash. The human heart still values recognition over riches."
The way you treat others reveals more about you than about them. Every action is a mirror. Kindness or cruelty says less about the world and more about the soul you're carrying."
Forget the professional diagnoses and the complexities, we all know he's a Psychopath 🤬‼Perfect for all the Sociopaths, Narcissists and Psychopaths, not to mention the MAGA Maggots to Worship, Follow, and express HATE🤬‼
Declare “My sensitivity is my superpower.” "Your journey from wounded to sovereign healer is not just personal—it contributes to collective healing. Each empath who integrates their gift clears the path for countless others."ers.
👌💖🎙️✨Well, I must really be rare and special, just like Mom and Dad told me. I'm an HSP and highly Empathic. Something that blows me up is others with no empathy, no integrity, no showing of Love, no understanding, or just Narcissists Sociopaths and Psychopaths with high levels of Neuroticisms & Crazy, they give me a constant mental illness.
I may have mental and physical conditions, but I have Empathy, integrity and SO MUCH LOVE TO SHARE... Sam,,, I love you. There I've said it. 👌💖🎙️✨I use my HSP traits just to stay away from Danger. The danger of people, Narcissists, and Dum Dums. I'm not an expert or a drama queen, but I've always been a Gay Jew, and an HSP, but now I am a result of Narcissistic Abuse, and Losing the Love of my Life 8 years ago.
I will continue to say I'm an Empath, because the name alone tells people they could be lacking empathy so while talking to me, they'll try to at least sympathise. Okay sorry I wrote to much. But, I write in Perfect Love & Perfect Trust. 💖
That was my feelings and comment about it without sounding like I was criticizing or anything negative. It bothered me yet, inspired me to get back to the writing on another page one of these days. I'd like to address many of the things he has taken to account, and many of the things about me,, and others like me, that he never took to account. He can't take to account or even address me or others like me, because he's not like us. We are special.
We give to others what others can not give to anyone, not even to themselves. Don't let what he said to you, bother you, if it bothers you. That video is not meant to inspire you or uplift you, or heal you in anyway. It's meant to inform you of what was researched and printed way way long long ago.
It's not trivial, it explains many people's toxic behavior towards others if you think about it. We are HSP Empaths, but other HSPs might not be Empaths, they may just be Narcissist, or Sociopath, or borderline or Psychopath.
Without a person being Empathic & Loving, caring and giving all the time; or an eye to distinguish the difference between us and them, or written research and facts about the difference, I think all the negative he was saying and quoting, did not factor in completely.
There are always exceptions, and at least I am one of them, but he should know that there are exceptions, like the exception that someone would know more or know better, about how there should be the word Empaths. We may be negative at times but we impact ourselves negatively, as we always positively help others.
We're not like everyone else, we deserve the label Empaths. We need that label because we are not individuals who consistently engage in harmful, unethical, immoral and selfish behaviors that negatively impact others or society.
By negative I mean, all the negatives belonging to the Narcissist, or Sociopath, or borderline or Psychopath. He just lumped HSP together with them like we are as bad as them. When they suffer their mental or physical conditions, they remain the negative terrible people we can't stand, while we suffer and remain beautiful people I wish I knew more of.
My two sisters can be HSP and all the negative that he talks about, but I will never be like them. I have always been Loving, giving, caring, sensitive, and respectful, while they have not been. I give people grace and time and time again to change their disgusting behaviors. They give people time to fall for their disgusting manipulations. So let's take them for example.
They hurt others without remorse, they don't take accountability for their negative actions (now or in the past), they can't feel empathy and they can't show it, they don't know how to show true love, true care, true integrity, clean and just morals, or even just support. Everything is about them, at all times as they disregard what you say when you say it. They don't know how to, not, think about themselves.
That's why he shouldn't say things like all HSP suffer these conditions (mentally & physically) resulting in ways and manners similarly like the Narcissist, or Sociopath, or borderline or Psychopath do. Nope sorry, wrong. There's nothing similar.
We suffer from the conditions yes, but we suffer differently. While they suffer constantly from a life of self-sabotages and burnt bridges for instance, they stay the same way they are, just maybe get worse. We don't turn into a Narcissist, or Sociopath, or borderline or Psychopath, we are the same beautiful understanding loving and giving people.
Maybe a dumdum would become like them, but an HSP who is an Empath, doesn't. Thus we Empathic people (people who need a name or label to call our own), can remain the same helpful and caring (not to mention polite & respectful) people we already are, whether we have mental and physical conditions or not.
We don't hurt people on purpose, we don't blame others, we don't disregard people's feelings or ethical and moral situations. We also don't force people to do things they don't want to do, or lie to others for us. We have Love in our hearts, and it's always there.
I didn't appreciate his careless dismissive attitude towards Empaths, telling everyone that there are no Empaths. How about there are, but the name isn't written in stone, like all the facts and figures he was telling us does. Or simply that it makes sense to have that word.
I don't appreciate when people talk while disregarding, me at the least. I may be special but there are more like me, I know this. And when you disregard me, you're disregarding others like me. Others that I love
I'm not a self styled professional or even a thin skinned person, but I am wired differently. He began by saying "people, persons with high sensitivity were more likely to experience mental health issues including anxiety and depression" which yes I agree with.
I basically suffer from alot of the things he mentioned in the rest of the video but I don't suffer the same one=sided selfish and publically harmful way like a Narcissist is suffering.
However he goes on to say "In other words if you're highly sensitive, you're more likely to be anxious or depressed, than if you're not sensitive, like me,,". Then he chuckles, like a narcissist would as they show apathy to others in a difficult situation.
And therein lies one of his problems right at the beginning, with himself and everything he's saying about me (like I said, I was trying to see if it was about me). If someone is going to talk about me being an HSP, but they are not, then it becomes a video from a non-sensitive person, for sensitive people. Like millionaire advice from a non-millionaire.
It's a video from an Apathetic person, about Highly Empathetic or Empathic people that NEED to be called Empaths, because everyone has abused us with their Apathetic responses and viewpoints.
To me it's just another video about a different kind of toxic people, people who are Apathetic but highly sensitive when it comes to themselves. He doesn't empathise, and he wouldn't sympathise. There is no way for him to reference from his own experience of being an empathetic HSP. So there's no way that he would see what I would see.
Now of course what he is saying is the written truth and facts, but they lay on the shoulders of his and others, not me, I have enough on my own shoulders. There are so many things I wish I could address from his videos, but I don't want to write so much when I don't have a whole page for this issue, of His Video vs Empaths and I.
I have anxiety and depression, off course I am suffering from mental and physical conditions, it's called victim of constant abuse to people like me whom are HSP and empathetic, as opposed to those who are not empathetic but highly sensitive and suffering, hurting people at the same time with their apathy.
To him there's no such thing as Empaths, so just call me HEP for being highly empathic. Or call me HLP, for being highly Loving. I want to go on about what he's saying and the difference between myself and others, but I'm afraid once again, someone has brought me to (as he puts it) an over-reactive feeling of arousal , with his video. There is much to say, for there much difference.
While having the mental and physical conditions that he mentions, I only have toxic behavior towards myself. I still feel deeply for others, not from the outside, but from both outside and inside. I don't need treatment, I need to only have other Empathic HSPs around, at least as my support group of close friends, who possess Empathy, Love, Spirituality and a Light knowone can see but we.
Now this is getting way to long without being on it's own page, so one day I will place it on a page, and continue through the whole video. One day. Until then please visit often as I continue my regular publishing, and enjoy all the other videos I place here. Thank you. I love you and talk to you later.
The Royal We It may not feel healing enough once you leave a toxic relationship. But, I promise each step away is a step closer to the healing you need.
