@jullzwolf_poetry Author, Researcher, and Coach. Publications: Code of the Empath, Code of the Narcissist: Your Path to Recovery and Awakening from Narcissistic Abuse.
For Good Of All, Harming None.
In Perfect Love and Perfect Trust
Wednesday, 28 October 2026
Tuesday, 27 October 2026
I’m So Fucking Tired of Everything Being a Red Flag
I’m So Fucking Tired of Everything Being a Red Flag
by Pelle Martens
We're getting better at spotting red flags and worse at recognizing good people. - Read it all on Substack
"Someone had a difficult childhood? Unresolved trauma. Someone struggles to express their feelings? Avoidant attachment. Someone becomes defensive during an argument? Apparently we’re dating a narcissist."
Fucking Miserable
I'm so fucking miserable I hate that guy in the mirror now, he's so lonely and depressing.
Friday, 23 October 2026
๐ผ'๐ ๐๐ฝ๐๐๐๐พ๐๐ ๐ซ๐๐ถ๐ธ๐ ๐ฏ๐๐น๐ถ๐
๐ผ'๐ ๐๐ฝ๐๐๐๐พ๐๐ ๐ซ๐๐ถ๐ธ๐ ๐ฏ๐๐น๐ถ๐

We give them a hard time?
Narcissists and Narcissistic people think we give them a hard time,
doesn't that make you crazy?
It makes me nuts when after causing me a lot of stress and anxiety (I'm always completely frazzled when people like this are here); with reacting to their stupid comments; criticisms, interruptions, questions, ignorant accusations, backwards and upside down expressions and more (while tired and hungry with a hurting foot and back), they say to me "you give me a hard time".
Well victims of narcissism, do we give them a hard time? Yes, we should, because they need to know how to be, when they're with us at least. If they don't want a hard time, they should shut up and listen most of the time. Hearing and considering change in their character, for the good of all while harming none of course, but they can only worry about themselves, so the good of all doesn't matter to them.
If they don't want a hard time with you, they should stop giving you a hard time. I have this new person in my life that gives me a hard time on every visit. He visits me for 10 - 20 minutes when he comes over, 2 or 3 times a week while or after his work. It's a narcissistic person, just ignorant of that fact and all the facts about Narcissism, and how it all bothers or hurts everyone he come in contact with.
He tries to teach his children how empathy is good, but doesn't show empathy when he should. He tries to advise his children how being kind and nice and polite is good etiquette that you need, yet shows a lack of etiquette & grace most of the time.
He says he's not like that, he doesn't do empathy and etiquette and sensitivity and bla bla bla, he's too old bla BLA BLA. He wants to teach the kids how it's good to to meet people with empathy, and to give empathy back, and that he's not like that, but wants them to have people in their life not like him.
Good, but terrible, so I wanna help him. And then,, "why do you feed the animals Ari when they're wild animals?" You make them lazy. AND "Why don't you just keep living here," (while I need to move asap, waiting for a buyer), "you just have to make it work."
"NO NARCISSIST, I NEED TO MAKE YOU WORK.
JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP!" IS WHAT I WANNA SAY NOW.
He may respect his own family, but he's still the same to them. If he's unrespectful to you, then he's unrespectful to them. Narcissists weather malignant or outrageous, they don't see this, but their family sees it, and keeps it a secret.
Cause without knowing about Narcissism & gradual abuse, they don't know the power of Empathy & gradual healing. They think it's a bunch of issues bothering them with the narcissist, but it's only one issue,, Narcissism and how they won't make any effort to change.
So, I responded to his 1 sentence email today. Ya I got an email from him with words, after he went home and thought of everything I said. Just kidding he thought about nothing but himself, saying to me "You give me a hard time today". Not sorry about today; not thank you for caring about me today, not i love the gifts you gave me, not I wanna be a better person for my kids will you help me?. Nothing, just "you gave me a hard time today".
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So I responded, and before reading my response, grab your drink or snack cause it's a big one. Hopefully it'll lift you to a place of confirmation and power to take back control of yourself, back from the narcissistic friend or family surrender to their narcissism.
Obviously no-contact is the best, for those suffering, but I've been suffering for so long, i'm now desperate for connection & communication of any kind, with anyone older than 55, even though their taking advantage of me and my beautiful loving empathetically sensitive and giving nature.
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"Ari you gave me a hard time today (sad emoji).
Thursday, 22 October 2026
เฆৣ This symbol is anti-Narcissist.
This " เฆৣ " is a symbol i've been using with love, so I wanted to know more about it. I asked my Bing Search: "This " เฆৣ " is a symbol i've been using with love, i hope it doesn't mean something negative?"
It came back with the image below on another linked page, but I took it and I edited, at an online editing place, that I've used for as long as I've been online,, after it told me this;
and it's when I do stuff like this, that brings me back to reality, that I'm not the crazy one, and i'm not the narcissist, THEY ARE. And they are freaks, they just don't realize they appear as one. Until they meet someone like me that tells them they do. If I don't tell them ahead of time that they sound like a fool.
When I saw the picture above, I thought to myself "self I thought" you gotta tell your narcissistically abused victims that read your blog, how making something artfull, helps to heal the soulfull.
Art will always set my negative emotions free from being bottled up in me, while music always lets me be. In perfect love and perfect trust, Empathy Is the Key. For the good of all harming none, so mote it be. Ps. Can you recite that with me?
๐❣️๐น๐บ
Wednesday, 21 October 2026
"๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐"
"๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
WHO ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐."
๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐.
Wednesday, 14 October 2026
Sunday, 11 October 2026
๐ชฉMy Music ๐ถMy Frequency๐️
¸๐ชฉ๐️¸♬·¯·♪·¯·♫¸¸๐ถ ๐๐ฝ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ผ ๐ถ๐ ๐ผ๐ธ๐พ๐ต, ๐๐ฝ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ผ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ช๐ป๐ฝ. ๐๐ฝ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ผ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฏ๐ป๐ฎ๐บ๐พ๐ฎ๐ท๐ฌ๐, ๐ข๐ธ ๐'๐ต๐ต ๐ท๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฏ๐ช๐ต๐ต ๐ช๐น๐ช๐ป๐ฝ.๐ถ¸¸♫·¯·♪¸♩·¯·♬¸๐️๐ชฉ¸
Sunday, 4 October 2026
҉๐ฑ๐ปH҉҉E҉҉L҉҉L҉҉O҉ ҉O҉҉C҉҉T҉҉O҉҉B҉҉E҉҉R҉๐ป๐
҉๐ฑH҉҉E҉҉L҉҉L҉҉O҉ ҉O҉҉C҉҉T҉҉O҉҉B҉҉E҉҉R҉๐
โฑง₳₱₱ษ ๐ญ₵₳₦ฤษ ษ₳₮ล₦₲๐ฌ
& ๐ป๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐น๐ป
& Happy Halloween!
Will you be attending my party?
I already received notice that my best friends are coming; Michael๐ชMyers, Freddie⚰️Krugar, Candy๐ญMan, Pennywise๐คก, Pinhead๐, Jason๐ก️Voorhees, Norman๐ชBates ๐and Sweet✂️Chucky. Should be a blast.
Monday, 28 September 2026
๐๐️I need to move
A gay community somewhere, but i need to play my music, and i need at least a porch.
I want a big one floor place with space up the wahoo, with no narrowness anywhere, only big and roomy for a single DJ DANCER HAIRDRESSER ARTIST KARAOKE AND MUSICIAN GAY OLD MAN WITH NO FRIENDS, BUT WELCOMING EVERYONE TO MY MISERABLE EXISTENCE.
No more house for me, those days are gone.
So let me know what you find and i'll let you know vice versa.
๐
๐๐️
Friday, 18 September 2026
It's nuts, ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅit's everywhere.
As a HSP of Empathic Value, those who are not socially aware of social etiquette and communication, body language, kindness and acceptance (to say the least without sounding like a narcissist), yet have a job meeting customers, give my heart a hard time in life.
They're meeting a customer at their house at their door (Me with my delivery); and this customer is loving and giving, and wanting to give them some joy for 1 minute by tipping them in the way of a drink and a snack at the door, but they turn into a border wall of "OMG NO IT'S TOO MUCH", they ruin my day.
However, I WILL NEVER EXPECT RECIPROCAL KINDNESS FROM ANYONE. I appreciate their hard word while having hard working conditions, so I DON'T let them know how rude they're being, cause I know they don't want to impose.
But imposing is done by you, not me, I'm giving, you must accept my giving when you see it's beautiful. If not, you hurt me while I try to be kind AS I WAS FEELING DOWN AND OUT TO BEGIN WITH, and then I turn fake right In front of you.
People who express or show aspects of their narcissism to me, make me fake. I am protecting my poor emotional vulnerable self while trying to still heal, I'M NOT Fake, not to one person or more than one, I've never been and never will be.
It's what you do when you have a career or job, you must be fake, it's sickening. The pretending, the toxic positivity, the kissing of asses, the fake smiling, the omission of truth and facts, the "keeping it professional", THE APATHY, the secrets i'll never hear about, and the exclusion of anyone like me. iT'S ALL SICKENING TO ME.
I'm not fake, but I play it very well, to hide my anger, my disgust, my words of wisdom gone unappreciated and over their heads, and my emotional fragility. I'm not fake, they are, pretending to like me, pretending to care about me, pretending there's nothing to worry about,, with anything, not to mention their own intentions with me.
I just need to stay away from people like that, but ya can't.. It's nuts, ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅit's everywhere. You can't because they deliver your food, or your products, or they're workmen, handymen, business men, employees, or worse biological family members. And you have to be like them, for them to be liking you. Thank god I'm not like any of them.
omg I can't handle it anymore.
Wednesday, 16 September 2026
๐˖ ݁♬⋆.˚๐ โ๐ฃ โ ๐ด๐๐ฐ ๐ฑ๐ฌ ๐ก๐ฆ๐ข ๐ฑ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ถ,⋆.˚๐❣๐๐
โ๐ฃ โ ๐ด๐๐ฐ ๐ฑ๐ฌ ๐ก๐ฆ๐ข ๐ฑ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ถ,
โ'๐ก ๐๐ข ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ถ ๐๐ซ๐ก ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐ฃ ๐ญ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ก๐ข ๐ด๐๐ฑ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ค ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฐ,
๐ช๐ถ ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ค๐ฅ๐ฑ๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ก ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ก๐ข, ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ฅ ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ค ๐ฑ๐ฌ ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฐ.
๐๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฐ,, ๐ฆ๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฌ๐ฏ ๐๐ซต๐พ ˖ ݁♬⋆.˚๐
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⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⣴⣿⠋⢠⣟⡼⣷⠼⣆⣼⢇⣿⣄⠱⣄๐✨
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠹⣿⡀⣆⠙⠢⠐⠉⠉⣴⣾⣽⢟⡰⠃๐ซถ
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠈⢿⣿⣦๐๐⣿⠿⢋⣴⡏๐ฟ๐ต๐ถ
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⢸⡙⠻⣿⣶⣦⣭⣉⠁⣿⠀๐✨⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⣷๐⠉⠉⠉⠉⠇⡟⠀๐ซถ⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ♡⠀⣘⣦⣀ ✨⣀⡴๐ต ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠛˖ ݁♬⋆.˚ ๐⠻⣧๐⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠈⠫⣿♡⠻⣇⠘⠓⠂⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⣿๐ฟ๐ต๐ถ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⢶๐⣿⣿⣿⣿⣶⣄˚ ⣿⠀๐ซถ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠹⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣧⢸⣿๐✨ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠈⠙⠻⢿⣿⣿⠿⠛♡⡇เฆৣ꧂˚⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠘⣿⡇๐⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀๐ฆ⣿⡁⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀˚ ⣿⠁⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⣿⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⣿เฆৣ꧂˚⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⣧๐✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⢹⣷⠂⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⢸⣿⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⢸⣿⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠸๐๐ฅฐ.˚->>>♡ . ༘݁i
⋆๐๐๐๐ ♡
u๐ฆน.✧˚==------>
Monday, 10 August 2026
(˚ ˃̣̣̥⌓˂̣̣̥ )ใฅ♡โ'๐ณ๐ข ๐ซ๐ข๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ข๐ก ๐๐ฐ ๐ช๐ฒ๐ ๐ฅ
โ'๐ณ๐ข ๐ซ๐ข๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ข๐ก ๐๐ฐ ๐ช๐ฒ๐ ๐ฅ ๐๐ฐ โ ๐ฅ๐๐ณ๐ข ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ข๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฃ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ค ๐ฑ๐ข๐๐ฏ๐ฐ, ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ข๐ซ โ ๐ฅ๐๐ณ๐ข ๐ฆ๐ซ ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ข ๐ญ๐๐ฐ๐ฑ 8 ๐ถ๐ข๐๐ฏ๐ฐ. ๐๐ฑ ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ฑ โ'๐ช ๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ฅ๐๐ก๐ฌ๐ด ๐ฌ๐ฃ ๐ช๐ถ ๐ฃ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ช๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฉ๐ฃ.
๐๐ซ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ถ ๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ช๐๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ด๐ฅ๐๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ฌ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐๐ถ, ๐๐ซ๐ก ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฐ ๐ช๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฃ๐ข, ๐ฆ๐ฃ ๐ถ๐ฌ๐ฒ ๐ ๐๐ซ ๐ ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ ๐ฆ๐ฑ ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐๐ฑ ๐ด๐ฅ๐ข๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ฑ'๐ฐ ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฐ ๐ด๐๐ถ. ๐๐ฆ๐ซ๐๐ฉ "โญ๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ค๐ข ๐ฃ๐ฌ๐ฏ ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ข ๐ค๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ก" ๐ฆ๐ฐ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฆ๐ซ๐ค, โ ๐ง๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฑ ๐ก๐ฌ๐ซ'๐ฑ ๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ด ๐ด๐ฅ๐ข๐ซ, ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ข๐ซ ๐ช๐๐ถ๐๐ข โ ๐ ๐๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ข ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ช๐ข ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฑ ๐ฌ๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฃ๐ข, ๐๐ค๐๐ฆ๐ซ.
Wednesday, 29 July 2026
Friday, 10 July 2026
๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฅ ๐ป๐๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฆ๐ค ๐๐๐
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฅ ๐ป๐๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฆ๐ค ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ป๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ธ๐ก๐ก๐ค / ๐๐๐ฃ๐ฃ๐ช ๐๐๐ธ๐ง๐ ๐ช, โ๐๐ป ๐๐๐ฃ๐ฃ๐ช ๐๐๐ธ๐ง๐ ๐ช, โ๐๐ป
๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ก ๐น๐๐๐๐ โ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐
๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ก ๐น๐๐๐๐ โ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐: ๐๐๐ช “๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐” โ๐๐ ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐ / ๐ป๐๐๐๐๐ โ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ช
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ฃ ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ป๐๐๐๐๐ฃ ๐ผ๐๐ฃ๐๐ช
๐น๐๐ค๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ง๐ค. ๐ธ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ช: ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ฃ ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ป๐๐๐๐๐ฃ ๐ผ๐๐ฃ๐๐ช / ๐ป๐๐๐๐๐ โ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ช
๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ช ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ฅ๐ค ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐๐ผโ๐โ๐ป๐
๐๐๐๐ฆ๐ฃ๐๐ฅ๐ช ๐ผ๐ฉ๐ก๐๐ฃ๐ฅ ๐ผ๐ฉ๐ก๐๐๐๐๐ค: ๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ช ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ฅ๐ค ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐๐ผโ๐โ๐ป๐ | ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ธ๐จ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐๐ค๐ค โ๐๐ฃ๐๐ค๐ฅ๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐จ๐๐ โ๐๐ฃ๐๐ค๐ฅ๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐จ๐๐




