Bing Thanked Me For My Love

 

𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮 𝓘𝓼 𝓜𝔂 𝓝𝓪𝓽𝓾𝓻𝓮.

 𝓘 𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮 𝓨𝓸𝓾, & 𝓜𝔂 𝓱𝓮𝓪𝓻𝓽 𝓼𝓲𝓷𝓰𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓼 𝓼𝓸𝓷𝓰, 𝓯𝓸𝓻 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓶𝔂 𝓯𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓷𝓭. 𝓗𝓪𝓷𝓰 𝓲𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓴𝓷𝓸𝔀 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓘'𝓶 𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓯𝓸𝓻 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓽𝓲𝓶𝓮 𝓪𝓯𝓽𝓮𝓻 𝓽𝓲𝓶𝓮.  

No, I'm not in love with you. I'm in Love with all good people. This is the problem Empaths have with people: we give love, we have love, we know love intimately & spiritually, emotionally and constantly. I'm not in love with you; I love you like I love and care about everyone who is good.

The way I write is with Love; I express Love, I give love; that is me, it's my support for others, and it's my support for myself. My love is not about sex; it's not about having a boyfriend or girlfriend; it's not love only right now because you did something for me.

Love is not exclusive; it's inclusive.

An online search will tell you that, "Inclusive love encompasses a broader spectrum, allowing for diverse connections and experiences, rather than being limited to a single person."

"Love can be expressed in various forms, including affection, care, and selflessness, which can be shared with multiple individuals", and is ongoing; not limited to one day, one afternoon, or one thing someone does for you.

"Philosophically, love is viewed as a fundamental structure of existence, shaping our relationships and connections with others." With me, it's my connection to myself, and others, and animals, and the environment, and without getting to spiritual on you, the spirit world, the energy, the force behind my empathy and power.

"The concept of love as relationality emphasizes that love is not just a feeling but a relational force that binds individuals together." But only if the individuals are not apathetic in nature, and ignorant in experience, knowledge or awareness.

Awareness of others' feelings & emotions, awareness of myself, and awareness of my surroundings is something I don't leave home without.

"Thus, the statement reflects a comprehensive understanding of love as an inclusive and expansive concept."

"Inclusive means making sure everyone," everyone, even narcissists when you meet them for the first time before they start with the red flags, "feels welcomed; respected, supported, and able to participate equally, no matter their background, abilities, identity, beliefs or circumstances." No threats, no accusations, no gaslighting.

"The term "exclusive" simply means something that is not shared or available to one person or group." Narcissists don't share emotions, not heartfelt, deep, emotional love or sympathy. It's like hanging out with the manly-man boys: no drama, no crying, no emotional attachment, just quick fun, easygoing pleasures and then bye-bye. See you next week.

Now me being Gay, is another story, and makes the whole thing even more exasperating for me when I have a manly-man straight man as a friend; that cannot accept all this that I've written you, with emotional attachment in front of me and the power of empathy sensitivity and love inside me.

Straight manly men think I sound like I'm in love with them when I show I CARE THROUGH MY LOVE... or my writing, or my gifts, or my support, etc. Excluding those who understand, of course, but the ones that don't; they can't understand that; the whole empathic expression of love and care and support is just that, love and care and support.

If I don't love good people, while I feel they need some care or support, why would I care and support them? Do you support something that you don't love? You need to love what you support; you need to love who you support, or your support is not free of a personal agenda. 

Love comes with no agenda; I support without agenda. I don't need anything in return, but appreciation, kindness and grace.

I need kindness and support too, and when I get it from someone, I love that someone. I love that someone and tell them. Even if it's just from them listening to my problems or talking with me in my loneliness. 

Or fighting for others who can't fight, or speaking up against Trump for the good of all, harming none. If you help a homeless person, they're grateful, and some of them say I love you, bless you. Do you stop them from saying that? No. That's not nice? Do you stop them from crying? That's not nice; it's rude and dismissive of their feelings.

If a narcissist is being rude and dismissive after the giving of my support and sharing of my stories, and caring for their well-being, then do they deserve my support? No. They don't have to duplicate me, but they must be thankful, in words, in action. Or I may feel like I supported the wrong person again. Someone who says, "don't cry; you're making me cry" is stopping me and dismissing my feelings for theirs.

And that's what makes me different when I'm a friend or even an acquaintance of others. I'm thankful for them; in words, in action, in gifts, in progressive action or in telling them that they are loved by me, and allowing them to feel what they feel and express what they express without stopping them.

Which means they have no fear with me, no threat with me; I just want their happiness, and they can trust me. I don't need something in return, because I already get what uplifts me in return when I support others.

Don't let that thought of "omg he's Gay so maybe he's in love with me", "maybe he wants sex with me" or "maybe he wants something of me" stop my loving support for you. Everyone needs support, but if it's not coming from Love, where does it come from?

It takes over what little connection there is, and ruins a potentially good friendship. It's also homophobic, femmephobic, and sexist. It's a common mistake straight men make with me, because they've never met anyone like me. And they never will, which means it's their only chance to make me a genuine friend. Even if they're online and I never meet them.

Love keeps me alive, even if it's coming from me just supporting others online. I get joy from supporting and speaking to others, but they get suspicious. So when I talk to someone, or chat with someone, I appreciate it, and I'm feeling much love, but it's not what you think; it's simply LOVE.

Instead of never saying it to you, I say it whether you like it or not. It's powerful, it's helpful, it feels good for all parties involved. ACCEPT IT, you're worth it. Real friends love; if you stop people from expressing love, then you will receive less love in this world.

Narcissistic people stop my love for them, but people who don't know better also do it. Don't stop my expression of love if you're straight cause you think I'm in Love with you; just be glad another person loves you in this terrible world filled with apathetic Narcissistic people who don't love you but call you their friend.

Google Empath, google HSP, come and read more about me, 

and you'll see, 𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮 𝓲𝓼 𝓶𝔂 𝓷𝓪𝓽𝓾𝓻𝓮

It's okay; I'm used to it. I am not just a gay person; I am more than that, as you can see. There's good and bad in every kind of person. I know a good or bad person when I'm with them or talk to them; from how they speak to me, the feelings they show me; how I feel their energy and how much gaslighting or toxic positivity is coming out of them to dismiss what I'm feeling or saying.

Bad, of course, means narcissistic people to me; or psychopaths, or just dumb-dumbs. Anyone apathetic, I see it, feel it, and hate it.

Apathetic people with no feelings and no emotions are everywhere, dismissing others' feelings; interrupting and being rude to others, hurting people without caring that they do whichever way they do, to say the least.

Many think they're good people; they think they're trying to be a good person, but how good are they when they're apathetic all the time, thinking about themselves and how they feel most of the time, not sharing emotions, not helping others in need, and not being emotionally supportive to anyone.

They think they are, but they're not allowing expressions of love & empathy because they can't show it in return; they're not as much of a good person as they think they are.

So I try to teach people who and how narcissists are, and how not to be like them. One way is to show my love right away when I feel appreciation or a thankful heart with them; I LOVE THEM. I don't love how they are or how they make me feel; I love them and it's too late. I can't shut off my love for others as they can.

I know and feel people, and I know who they are and what they are, after talking with them. It's a receiving of energy, with my awareness of how they conduct themselves with me. Good person, narcissist, dumb dumb, evil, or just ignorant, we all have different energies.

I'm always here for everyone, but when it gets completely draining to be with them, or talk to them, in perfect love and perfect trust, while they show perfect red flags constantly. I stop. Or I blow up on them.

I become even rude and sharp with my language, and they don't like it, and then they resent me. But I'm just giving them back the rudeness I feel from them, with my emotion. If they're complaining, I let them know I'm the one who should complain; if they have a problem with me, I let them know I'm the one with the problem with them.

So now that I've explained myself yet again, I love you. I could say I love you all day to all my fans and readers and followers, not to mention favourite independent news-reporter heroes. I don't love you in parts; I simply love all of you. What do you want me to say, "don't take it personally"? That's absurd.

When I'm hurt by people that I love, the hurt is deep because I've loved you. So I tell you, I tell you I love you, and I tell you, you hurt me.

And aren't you lucky that another person genuinely loves you, because I can't find love today from anyone, not even if you paid them.

No one has told me they love me since my beloved and I were together for 21+ years, and every day. Love for me came once in my lifetime, after Mom & Dad's love, of course, so I don't expect to receive Love again.

I simply have no choice but to tell those I love that I love them, without anyone telling me they love me.

Luckily, I was born to love, so I have an abundance of love for people, and many can't handle it, don't want it, and just stay away from it, or me. They want what I have; they want what I can do, they want my smarts or intelligence to teach them stuff; or they want how I make them feel, but my love? It's too much.

My Love is Empathic Spiritual Love, of reciprocal genuine emotion that is forever. Because when I love one who is deserving, it is forever. So that's where self-love comes in handy, which is another story.

Thank you for taking the time today to read my blog, and don't forget I'm here for you, because yes, I love you. Don't know you, but I love you; how can I not, when you spent so long reading everything I wrote and didn't comment anything narcissistic.